Should I move out?

[DaughterofKing]

Alright, well, look, I know I already asked this but I really need your guys' opinion here cause I'm approaching the fork in the road and I gotta turn left or right. My parents are about to move to another state into a new house and they wanna know if I'm coming with them or if I'm going my way.

See, my parents and I we're really close. We're all we got. So if I were to leave them, they would be really sad and would only have each other.

I am 25 years old and if it were up to me I would kind of want to move out because I love the idea of moving to my city of choice, getting a cool little apartment and dressing it up with furniture and having freedom and eating whatever I want and inviting whoever I want over and all that.

On the other hand I would feel guilty knowing I left my parents and I would be sad and I would miss them too.

Either way I would get a job and be financially independant but--it's just a matter of whether I live with my parents or not.

I don't know, the most important thing to me is to be a good Christian in whatever I do.

I would like to know all of you guys' opinions? What would you do? What is your opinion?

[ayin jade]

In all things, go to the Lord in prayer and seek His will in this. Otherwise, there is nothing that says you shouldnt be on your own. You will not be dishonoring your parents if you move out.

[Marnie]

Alright, well, look, I know I already asked this but I really need your guys' opinion here cause I'm approaching the fork in the road and I gotta turn left or right. My parents are about to move to another state into a new house and they wanna know if I'm coming with them or if I'm going my way.

See, my parents and I we're really close. We're all we got. So if I were to leave them, they would be really sad and would only have each other.

I am 25 years old and if it were up to me I would kind of want to move out because I love the idea of moving to my city of choice, getting a cool little apartment and dressing it up with furniture and having freedom and eating whatever I want and inviting whoever I want over and all that.

On the other hand I would feel guilty knowing I left my parents and I would be sad and I would miss them too.

Either way I would get a job and be financially independant but--it's just a matter of whether I live with my parents or not.

I don't know, the most important thing to me is to be a good Christian in whatever I do.

I would like to know all of you guys' opinions? What would you do? What is your opinion?

I think if you are 25, have a job and are supporting yourself, you should be on your own. I love my Daddy more than anybody, but there is no way I could live with him again, unless it was for health reasons, and we are very close. But be in prayer about it.

[elkieDannsa' Air An Drochaid]

Hear DOK,

With the subject matter of all the questions that you have asked, I would say you need FIRSTLY to get right with GOd and grow in HIm, then let HIm lead you in all things. This is what you need most. BEcause if you don't take the time to really know GOd, and how He wants you to live in HIm and HIs Ways for you and afrim knowledge of Him and the Bible teachings; you may not like the paths you find yourself in.

Blessings and prayers,

elkie

[LightningEast2West]

How about doing both?

Move out of your parents place, but find a place nearby? In that way you get your independence and you not to far to say "hi" to your folks.

Move with your folks to the new state, city or town. Then once you're there find a place of your own nearby.

[mikado5001]

How about doing both?

Move out of your parents place, but find a place nearby? In that way you get your independence and you not to far to say "hi" to your folks.

Move with your folks to the new state, city or town. Then once you're there find a place of your own nearby.

This is wisdom. Heed the words spoken here. Especially 'LE2W'. The LORD led you here. I think this might be why. Stay close to your folks. No matter the distance. Cherish each moment. Since they will never come again.

To move out does your parents no dishonor at all. In fact, I would say that striking out on your own is doing them a great honor. It shows that they have taught you well. And that you learned well, too. It means you have been good parents. But I would encourage you to stick close to them. But seek HIS will first.

Do you have many friends where you are? Friends that you want to remain close too? Then you may wish to stay close to them. Make sure that you have access to Mom and Dad. And in this day and age. The world is smaller than it once was.

And MAY G-D BE WITH YOU NO MATTER WHAT!!!

[DaughterofKing]

wow, what brilliant advice. why didnt i think of this? no i dont really have many friends elsewhere at all, just a lot of bad memories Id rather forget....hmmm, you have got me thinking!

[mikado5001]

wow, what brilliant advice. why didnt i think of this? no i dont really have many friends elsewhere at all, just a lot of bad memories Id rather forget....hmmm, you have got me thinking!

Thats what we're here for. If the memories are some you would rather forget. Than the desicion is closer to being made. Glad to help. Heck, if you and the family are moving to New York City. You got a friend here waiting for you.

[Openly Curious]

Alright, well, look, I know I already asked this but I really need your guys' opinion here cause I'm approaching the fork in the road and I gotta turn left or right. My parents are about to move to another state into a new house and they wanna know if I'm coming with them or if I'm going my way.

See, my parents and I we're really close. We're all we got. So if I were to leave them, they would be really sad and would only have each other.

I am 25 years old and if it were up to me I would kind of want to move out because I love the idea of moving to my city of choice, getting a cool little apartment and dressing it up with furniture and having freedom and eating whatever I want and inviting whoever I want over and all that.

On the other hand I would feel guilty knowing I left my parents and I would be sad and I would miss them too.

Either way I would get a job and be financially independant but--it's just a matter of whether I live with my parents or not.

I don't know, the most important thing to me is to be a good Christian in whatever I do.

I would like to know all of you guys' opinions? What would you do? What is your opinion?

A fork in the road is a serious place in one's life for it will determine your destiny whether good or bad and should by no means be taken lightly. The Word of God tells us that there is safety in a multitude of counselors so I applaude you for asking advice. However, for one to make a good choice at a crossroad in life it takes good sound judgment. This good sound judgment in which I speak of is having a good sense in knowing right from wrong. For if one knows the right way and choses it then their path will be blessed by their good and right judgment. But if not then the opposite is true and bad judgment in choosing the wrong over the right will be disaterous not a good turn out.

The closeness in which you speak of having with your parents should have no bearing on the choice you make here for it is not about them it is all about you and your destiny where are you going in life. If you will notice that your parents are doing the same thing with their lives choosing their destiny in what they think is best for them not you.

I see from your post that you are 25 years old and are an adult and you seem to have a general sense of what you really want to do. Which from my understanding it is #1 move out #2 move to a city #3 get a job #4 get a place of your own #5 eat anything you like and #6 choose your own friends.

The numbers 5 & 6 of your plans lead me to believe you are in search of freedom in which you do not presently have within your parents place you feel controlled. You must be cautious in seeking your independence and freedom because temptations will defiantly be pulling you in this area and if not careful you could make an unwise choice based upon those temptations in which the enemy(Satan) has put into your path to possiblely deceive you in your walk with the Lord. Your choices in life should never be made on silly things like the kind of friends you want or the things you eat (not that you are doing this) I am just making a point. Those type of things should have nothing to do with you wanting to be a mature adult.

As long as you live with your parents you will always be treated like a child and it will never be different as long as you continue to live as a child (even being 25 years old) under your parents roof. To be an adult it means being mature and taking the responsibility of being an adult which means taking on the work of your own outcome in life. Which from my impression of your post you still seem immature at this point but at the same time you seem like your ready to take the plunge into adulthood which may come for you at age 25 some people mature faster than others.

When I first read your post I was reminded of a passage of scripture in the book of James 4:13-17 where it speaks of a type of person that had made their own plans and had decided that either today or tomorrow they were going into such and such a city (their city of choice) and that they would stay there for about a year and make a lot of money then they'd be rich basicly they would get gain.

But then there was a warning for nobody has a promise of tomorrow and that we should say If it be the Lord's will we will do this or that. The point I am making here is that you to have made your own plans in what you want to do with your life at this point 1-6 above move out move to a city get a job get your own place eat anything you want and choose your own friends this is the plan that you are boasting about. I am deeply concerned that you have left the Lord's will out of your plans and that these current plans of yours is solely based on selfish reasons which is your own will not the Lord's.

I would strongly urge you to reconsider your current plans and include the Lord into them then make the right choice about your own destiny. Which I believe is becoming a mature adult. For it is the Lord's will that you have your own family one day which will intail having your own household run by you and your husband to be if marriage is in your future. Don't fall prey to selfish desires and temptations you may have in your mind about what it will be like having your own way in life eating whatever and having the friends you want. Those things is not what it is all about so please pray and read God's word for He will guide and give you wisdom in this matter if you include and seek His will in this important matter.

God Bless

Openly Curious

[DaughterofKing]

thank you openly curious...