Marriage and relationship.

[RGR]

I think you are right, I wonder how many couples really know each other before they get married?

And therein can lie a problem. So many people look at a potential mate and say, "well, God brought them to me to meet, so if we marry it'll all work out" never stopping to really get to know the person. I think many more marriages could be saved if folks would get to know one another.

[angels4u]

Ronald, I absolutely believe that alot of people who took their time to get to KNOW each other will have a better marriage, often people marry to young afraid to stay alone or to get away from home.

It also very important to get to know their family..how they act towards each other....and if they truly surrendered their life to God.

A marrige should be a three folded cord God-man-wife intertwined so it will be strong that would be hard to break wouldn't it?

Angels

[Russell]

What the succeeding articles are saying to us is that marriages are failing because the individuals in them are failing to be Christ-like in attitude, and that when those attitudes are changed, there is every reason to believe that we can build a secure, loving, and wonderfully rewarding relationship in our marriages.

So true angel. Not so easy to do....it might be better to get out relationship with Jesus in order first...so that our marriages can stand a chance.

Thanks for posting.

[angels4u]

Russel,

It is not easy to do ,its work and we do have to have it in the right order.....if our relationship with God cools off it will be the same in our marriage.

And the thing is you have to have both parts working on it!! )

And it can be frustrating by times.

Angels

[Manofwork]

I totally agree with Angel4u i got married to young the first time round.If i had only listened to God and not other parts of me(sorry if i've offended but it's true)maybe i would have saved a lot of heartache.Jesus first mate second this is the way

[JP1]

And therein can lie a problem. So many people look at a potential mate and say, "well, God brought them to me to meet, so if we marry it'll all work out" never stopping to really get to know the person. I think many more marriages could be saved if folks would get to know one another.

My wife and I met when I was stationed in North Carolina and she was in Michigan. We married 6 months after we met. During that 6-months, I only actually saw her on maybe three occasions when I came home on leave.

This June we will be married 23 years. Man, do I love her!

[angels4u]

LESSON 4

SOLID MARRIAGES: WHERE TO BEGIN

INTRODUCTION

"A good marriage is one of the most satisfying experiences in the world, and one of God

[seekandyouwillfind]

Hi Cerran,

I think you are right, I wonder how many couples really know each other before they get married?

I believe its extremely important to learn more from the family you get to deal with after you get married, like how close their family life is and how the parents cared  for the children. Your wife/husband will bring that in your life ...look how their parents get along and personalities.

Angels

THAT WOULD BE CORRECT!!

WAS THERE FIGHTING IN THAT HOME????DONT EVER NOT MEET THE PARENTS!!

[papa T]

God is Love

If you truly Love each other...then it will be A-OK.

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