BGuy Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Newbie Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/12/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2019 might be cheating My wife and I have been through some bad things, on all fronts. Both of us. Over the last year our communication has broken down. Out marriage and relationship has vanished. I am just a function . We have kids and we do great with them . She is nursing school and my work schedule is crazy but it has been as if we are living aerate lives. Recently someone who was a “friend” has reached out to my wife to see if we want to hang out ? This is a shady individual and has cheated on his wife and family very openly . My wife knows that and has never trusted him. But yet this guy keeps communication with her while avoiding me ? I know my wife had a part in it and I have said something several times. But I believe and know they still “talk “ on Snapchat . My guy says no this is wrong , should I confront him too? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ayin jade Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 44 Topic Count: 6,178 Topics Per Day: 0.88 Content Count: 43,795 Content Per Day: 6.21 Reputation: 11,243 Days Won: 58 Joined: 01/03/2005 Status: Offline Popular Post Share Posted March 12, 2019 You and your wife need to sit and talk. It sounds like you could use some counseling too. Talk talk talk to each other. Silence does nothing. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shanee Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 55 Topic Count: 109 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 9,272 Content Per Day: 1.50 Reputation: 10,392 Days Won: 4 Joined: 06/05/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 06/12/1974 Share Posted March 12, 2019 (edited) I really don't know much about this topic me myself I probably would not confront the guy. I've always thought a outsider really has nothing to do with a relationship. But either way big welcome to Worthy!! ?and i just Prayed for God to help.Agape Edited March 12, 2019 by shanee Spelling and added more 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlestarsmum Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 0 Topics Per Day: 0 Content Count: 1,182 Content Per Day: 0.51 Reputation: 1,991 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/15/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2019 I’m so sorry to hear about your situation, friend. This is a hard thing to go through. I feel most of the problems can be solved if we can communicate well with each other, and I think it's important to address your concerns with your wife. Have you ever considered talking with a marriage counselor? I just said a prayer for you and wife, asking God to draw you closer to Himself and to each other in the days ahead. Stay strong in Him. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debp Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 52 Topic Count: 1,020 Topics Per Day: 0.15 Content Count: 12,309 Content Per Day: 1.80 Reputation: 16,365 Days Won: 92 Joined: 07/19/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2019 Welcome. I agree you should talk things over with your wife and hopefully get some counseling with your pastor or another Christian counselor. Whatever you do, don't argue. Just explain you care about her and your marriage, and you want to talk about things constructively. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turtletwo Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 35 Topic Count: 1,192 Topics Per Day: 0.19 Content Count: 7,264 Content Per Day: 1.19 Reputation: 15,710 Days Won: 194 Joined: 07/15/2007 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2019 I'm sorry that this situation is occurring. I know it is painful for you... My advice would be to prayerfully approach her about it. I will pray that your confrontation leads to a productive and honest conversation. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Omegaman 3.0 Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Graduated to Heaven Followers: 57 Topic Count: 1,546 Topics Per Day: 0.21 Content Count: 10,320 Content Per Day: 1.41 Reputation: 12,323 Days Won: 9 Joined: 04/15/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/05/1951 Share Posted March 12, 2019 This is the Welcome forum, for self introduction and people welcoming you. Moving this to a more appropriate location. Welcome though! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 597 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,106 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,840 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2019 Ayin is right, you need some counseling. I would recommend: https://www.familylife.com/weekend-to-remember/ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enoob57 Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 35 Topic Count: 100 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 41,166 Content Per Day: 7.98 Reputation: 21,444 Days Won: 76 Joined: 03/13/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/27/1957 Share Posted March 12, 2019 It has been given to us the power to love.... it is a shame when we do not use it >especially< where it is required as witness to others Eph 5:25-32 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. KJV Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Billiards Ball Posted March 12, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 5 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1,502 Content Per Day: 0.66 Reputation: 662 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/05/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2019 11 hours ago, BGuy said: might be cheating My wife and I have been through some bad things, on all fronts. Both of us. Over the last year our communication has broken down. Out marriage and relationship has vanished. I am just a function . We have kids and we do great with them . She is nursing school and my work schedule is crazy but it has been as if we are living aerate lives. Recently someone who was a “friend” has reached out to my wife to see if we want to hang out ? This is a shady individual and has cheated on his wife and family very openly . My wife knows that and has never trusted him. But yet this guy keeps communication with her while avoiding me ? I know my wife had a part in it and I have said something several times. But I believe and know they still “talk “ on Snapchat . My guy says no this is wrong , should I confront him too? Yes, I don't see why you shouldn't ask him to give both you and your spouse time and space--and if he disagrees, he's not your friend and may be regarded as an enemy--forgive your enemies but take responsive action! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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