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[1to3]

Just now, Figure of eighty said:

I try to stay in my room as much as possible.. But when my son gets up and starts to stir my mom says dont have him cooped up in the room. To avaid arguments I just roll with it.

 

when it become to much than just take you son and go back into your room, your shelter of peace, love your son, hug your son, tell him all will be ok because Christ Jesus  is right there with you both.  Trust your instincts( they come from the Holy Spit of God). Going to a shelter may be like going from a hot frying pan into a fire. Am keeping you your son and your family mom, dad siblings in prayer.

In Christ Jesus always;

1to3

Edited January 21, 2021 by 1to3

[R. Hartono]

22 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

Dad got finished screaming at me calling me lazy, stupid.. My baby started crying. 

This quarantine has been hellish for me. 

 

Please pray im going to a shelter.  I have to before it gets physical.

Isnt there any place for protection at church ?

[Marathoner]

Unfortunately I can't assist you personally with finding shelter, @Figure of eighty, but I can offer advice. Usually when most people think of a homeless shelter, they have a specific place in mind. Not all shelters are equal and each is different depending upon their mission focus. 

The organization I work for is a transitional housing shelter which is different than what many people think of when "homeless shelter" is mentioned. We presently house two single moms with children in our program; they each live in a furnished apartment and receive assistance from our case managers on a daily basis. We provide them with food and other things they need (like clothing) for their families. The goal is to give them a safe place to stay until whatever issues they face are worked out, which usually takes time. We never release anyone to live on the street again, not if we can help it.

That's so you'll know that not all shelters are the same. 

You and the Lord know your situation so again, all I can offer is advice. There are charitable organizations similar to the one I work for out there... this isn't the only one. Some are run by Christian missions which is where a pastor can be a big help 

[Charlie744]

3 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

I try to stay in my room as much as possible.. But when my son gets up and starts to stir my mom says dont have him cooped up in the room. To avoid arguments I just roll with it. Also my brother and dad barge in my room and close the door when they wantt to be petty

 

What part of the country are you living ?

[Figure of eighty]

2 hours ago, SONshine said:

So sorry, figure-of-eighty.  Could you apologize to your mom and dad for the sake of re-establishing a better relationship?  I know it’s hard, but it would be worth it, I think.  God bless....

When i leave and have time to deal with everything yes. Right now no. The disrespect is constant just now my dad barged in my room and woke my sleeping baby saying he's hungry when he's not. They keep trying to tell me how to raise my baby until midnight hits or until its inconvenient for them. 

This is VERY stressful. Trying to show respect when youre disrespected at every turn. Its not right. Ive tried to move but they clipped my wings so to speak at evety turn. So im stuck.

[Figure of eighty]

 But now my baby is up. Thanks to my dad. 

 

For the sake of my baby , so he won t cry.. I wont scream at my dad.

[Figure of eighty]

My plan is to move with thr stimulus money and tax money so i can be free.

[R. Hartono]

On 1/21/2021 at 7:51 AM, Figure of eighty said:

Dad got finished screaming at me calling me lazy, stupid.. My baby started crying. 

This quarantine has been hellish for me. 

 

Please pray im going to a shelter.  I have to before it gets physical.

Its a test from God that we shud give ourselves totally to the Holy Spirit of Jesus, every true christians are tested that God may see the true hearts whether it deserved heaven or not.

Look how quick death came in this pandemic, life is like a passing wind that goes to below the tombstone.

Edited January 22, 2021 by R. Hartono

[Figure of eighty]

Update-- my dad called my mom to tattle on me. 

 

 

Its not going well. At all. I have a headache. My dad's trying to paint a picture of me neglecting my child.. Not true. 

 

Im trying not to hit my dad tbh

[AnOrangeCat]

7 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

My plan is to move with thr stimulus money and tax money so i can be free.

Sounds like a plan. Just don't plan too heavily on the stimulus money. It'd be nice if we got some but there's enough opposition to the idea of further spending that it being delayed, shot down, or downsized is likely.