TUK Posted October 31, 2014 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 3 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 13 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/31/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted October 31, 2014 Hello My wife and I have 4 children (blended family) they are all adults now ( late 20s-early 30s ). they were all brought up in a Christian home going to a Christian church. About 10 years ago they each walked away from god over a 2 year period. By the counsel of church leaders we cut of all contact with them except for occasional runins. Over the years I have been convicted that this was not the proper course of action and have talked to my wife but she refuses to budge. I recently started to reconnect with 1 of my daughters but did this without my wife knowing. I didn't feel right about this and told her and she became livid and called this a form of cheating. I told her that I believe god has told me to open the doors of communication with my children.She is still really angry and we fight about this a lot. I know that If I try to talk to my pastors they will tell me that I am interfering in gods work. I however disagree and told my wife these feelings and she is now talking of me being in step with the enemy and has talked of leaving me. I don't know where to turn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B3L13v3R Posted October 31, 2014 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 11 Topic Count: 76 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,261 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 1,035 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/12/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted October 31, 2014 Welcome TUK Praying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwikphilly Posted October 31, 2014 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 96 Topic Count: 307 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 18,143 Content Per Day: 4.62 Reputation: 27,832 Days Won: 327 Joined: 08/03/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted October 31, 2014 Blessings TUK... Welcome to Worthy......I really do want to talk with you about this but this is the "Welcome Forum",the place where you introduce yourself to our community & we greet & welcome you to this ministry......it is not the place for discussions or advice ,there are forums where you can staart your own thread to discuss your situation & you will get many responses,you are required to have 5 posts & then you can choose the appropriate forum...perhaps"Am I Alone",Need Advice"....or something like that,,,also "Prayer Request" So,I want to encourage you to post this Topic as soon as you have 5 posts,you can accumulate them very quickly by replying to each of your welcomes,if you like...............I look forward to talking with you ,God Bless you With love-in Christ,Kwik Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pawz Posted October 31, 2014 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 18 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 257 Content Per Day: 0.07 Reputation: 58 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/14/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted October 31, 2014 TUK, welcome, feel for you - awful situation. Follow Kwik's advice so you can get help and dialog and guidance soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve_S Posted October 31, 2014 Group: Servant Followers: 25 Topic Count: 275 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 5,208 Content Per Day: 0.99 Reputation: 1,893 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/02/2010 Status: Offline Share Posted October 31, 2014 What sort of church is this, if you don't mind me asking? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippie333 Posted October 31, 2014 Group: Royal Member Followers: 15 Topic Count: 114 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1,236 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 673 Days Won: 1 Joined: 10/24/2012 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/18/1970 Share Posted October 31, 2014 Col 4:2 Continue in prayer and watch in it with thanksgiving, Col 4:3 praying together about us also, that God may open to us a door of the Word, to speak the mystery of Christ, for which I also have been bound, Col 4:4 that I may make it clear, as I ought to speak. Col 4:5 Walk in wisdom toward those on the outside, redeeming the time. Col 4:6 Let your speech be always with grace, having been seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one. Mat 28:19 Therefore go and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, Mat 28:20 teaching them to observe all things, whatever I commanded you. And, behold, I am with you all the days until the end of the world. Amen 2Ti 3:16 All Scripture is God-breathed, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, 2Co 2:14 Now thanks be to God, who always causes us to triumph in Christ, and He revealing through us the odor of the knowledge of Him in every place. 2Co 2:15 For we are to God a sweet savor of Christ, in those being saved, and in those being lost; 2Co 2:16 to the one we are the savor of death to death, and to the other we are the savor of life to life. And who is sufficient for these things? 2Co 2:17 For we are not as many, hawking the Word of God; but as of sincerity, but as of God, we speak in Christ in the sight of God. How, do we witness to the needy, the sick and the lost.....correct our brothers and sisters in Christ....without speaking to them, or having contact? I am praying for you brother....and your children. God Bless, Hip Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayin jade Posted October 31, 2014 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 44 Topic Count: 6,178 Topics Per Day: 0.87 Content Count: 43,795 Content Per Day: 6.20 Reputation: 11,243 Days Won: 58 Joined: 01/03/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted October 31, 2014 Sounds a bit cultic to me. Your church that is. You are the spiritual head of your home. Not your wife. Not your pastor. Your wife should be listening to you. You are in a sad situation. Lots of folks here can pray for you and listen as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted October 31, 2014 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 598 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,178 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,906 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted October 31, 2014 Yes, what ayin said.... welcome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1x1is1 Posted October 31, 2014 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 8 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1,146 Content Per Day: 0.27 Reputation: 732 Days Won: 1 Joined: 10/30/2012 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/10/1950 Share Posted October 31, 2014 I agree with ayin jade and kwik. Don't feel rejected by Worthy, do as kwik said and make 5 posts. Then we can attack this together. GBU Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Teditis Posted October 31, 2014 Share Posted October 31, 2014 Hi and Welcome Tuk. I look forward to talking with you more about all of this... meanwhile I'll be praying for you and your family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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