Friend accusing me of lying about liking sushi

[Jayne]

1 hour ago, post said:

has anyone other than me tried highlighting a couple sentences of the OP, then searching google for exact matches to it? like you might if you were looking to see if material had been plagiarized, or trying to find the source of a quote?  

does the result of such a search mean anything to anyone . . ? 

                        

Some people live at home with their parents at an advanced age due to being a mild to high functioning autistic person or a person with Asperger's syndrome.

Some people have accounts on multiple sites and spam the same complaints everywhere - mostly about people in their lives not understanding or agreeing with them - not really looking for an answer, because they cannot communicate well, but to "feel" a part of the human race.

Some of these people I have encountered on two different sites - one where I am a moderator and its my job there to Google unusual posts to find trolls and/or those with disabilities so as to understand them better.

Some people will not even come back to their OP's and some people will and yet will never understand that I am making references to them.

Some people who suffer from autism and Asperger's are very, very literal and take much of what others say as lies or betrayals because they cannot synthesize anything beyond the literal, the brief, and/or the conversation targeted directly at what they are saying.

Edited April 26, 2016 by Jayne

[MorningGlory]

2 hours ago, post said:

has anyone other than me tried highlighting a couple sentences of the OP, then searching google for exact matches to it? like you might if you were looking to see if material had been plagiarized, or trying to find the source of a quote?  

does the result of such a search mean anything to anyone . . ? 

                        


 
 

I did just that and found this posted on at least seven sites.  Either the OP copied it from one of them or she posts her drama on site after site.  Either way, I don't believe this thread is anything but an attention getting attempt for a social networking troll. 

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6 hours ago, Jayne said:

Some people live at home with their parents at an advanced age due to being a mild to high functioning autistic person or a person with Asperger's syndrome.

Some people have accounts on multiple sites and spam the same complaints everywhere - mostly about people in their lives not understanding or agreeing with them - not really looking for an answer, because they cannot communicate well, but to "feel" a part of the human race.

Some of these people I have encountered on two different sites - one where I am a moderator and its my job there to Google unusual posts to find trolls and/or those with disabilities so as to understand them better.

Some people will not even come back to their OP's and some people will and yet will never understand that I am making references to them.

Some people who suffer from autism and Asperger's are very, very literal and take much of what others say as lies or betrayals because they cannot synthesize anything beyond the literal, the brief, and/or the conversation targeted directly at what they are saying.

 

thanks,

this brings up an important idea my sister Lynn has been bothered by for a while now -- forums attract 'trolls' and Christian forums in particular, because the world hates Him. we're sheep among wolves - so He tells us to be gentle as doves and crafty as serpents - He doesn't teach us to be naive - we need to have discernment and exercise good judgement when strangers come around and make 'weird' posts. we shouldn't be taken in, or spend all our energy entertaining mockers, but we don't want to mistreat people who are genuine but appear trollish somehow - check the bathwater for babies, please.. 

but besides purposeful mischief-makers and mockers, and people genuinely looking for light, there's another category that could get mistakenly mistreated. there are people with mental problems and psychosis. maybe this person has clinical psychological problems, like you point out -- how do we recognize the difference between trolls and the mentally ill? how should that affect how we deal with people? 

we're generally not people trained in psychology or behavioral analysis. if any of us are educated or gifted like this, or with discernment, we need to exercise the gift for everyone's benefit, because all the gifts of God are for the edification of all the body, and the need is there. the bigger and more active a Christian community gets, the more it becomes both a target for mockers who hate God and want to attack the church, and a magnet for the spiritually and literally broken. 

if we are not to be naive, but need discernment and wisdom -- it's just all the more reason to keep in His presence all the time, praying and seeking Him, because in Him we find what we need. and to study and get understanding in everything, so we're not found wasting our energies or reacting foolishly. 

something to think about

 

[LadyKay]

10 hours ago, MorningGlory said:

I did just that and found this posted on at least seven sites.  Either the OP copied it from one of them or she posts her drama on site after site.  Either way, I don't believe this thread is anything but an attention getting attempt for a social networking troll. 

You mean to tell me I just spent my time giving out my helpful advice and talking about how I don't like Chinese food to a fake post?

[kwikphilly]

ionBlessings,,,

    I'm perplexed,I don't know what this conversation is doing in the Inner Court,it sounds like "he said/she said" for the outside parking lot,,,,,honestly & I hope I am not sounding offensive but it is my opinion,,,,,,,

     I cannot see anything in the entire scenario that gives Glory to God ,is worth your anxiety,stress or time,,,,,,,,,,,,,this person seems to want to nit-pick & argue just for the sake of argueing,,,,,,,is this the type of fellowship you desire? I don't particularly like "Sushi" either but there are plenty of other choices on the menu like "stir-fry" foods,tempura & a variety of things,,,,the idea of going out with "friends" is to enjoy each others company & usually when Christians "gather",,,,,,,,God is in the midst,even when 2 or more are gathered in His Name,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I didn't hear the Lords Name come up at all in that discussion,,,,,,,

    I suggest you be more selective in choosing who you want to socialize with,choose to be around o His"God centered people",,,,,,they think less about themselves & more about our Lord & others,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,you are a child of God Most High,look to His Word about who you should be spending your time with.......

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Proverbs 18:24

Verse Concepts

A man of too many friends comes to ruin, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

 

Proverbs 17:17

Verse Concepts

A friend loves at all times, And a brother is born for adversity.

Proverbs 27:5-6

 

Better is open rebuke Than love that is concealed. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.

Proverbs 12:26

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The righteous is a guide to his neighbor, But the way of the wicked leads them astray.

Proverbs 13:20

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He who walks with wise men will be wise, But the companion of fools will suffer harm.

Proverbs 22:24-25

 

Do not associate with a man given to anger; Or go with a hot-tempered man, Or you will learn his ways And find a snare for yourself.

1 Corinthians 15:33

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Do not be deceived: "Bad company corrupts good morals."

2 Corinthians 6:14

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Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?

Proverbs 14:6-7

 

A scoffer seeks wisdom and finds none, But knowledge is easy to one who has understanding. Leave the presence of a fool, Or you will not discern words of knowledge.

                                                   With love-in Christ,Kwik

[kwikphilly]

Blessings Lady Kay

    No Sister,,,,you've NOT wasted your time,,,,,,,,,,someone out there is reading what we "Christians" have to say to this silly post,,,,,,,,we focus on God,we are His Servants & we plant good seeds,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I don't even think the post is Worthy of Gods Inner Court ,,,,,so I do my best to Glorify Him & re-direct the focus where in needs to be,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,God the Father,God the Son & God the Holy Spirit,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,To Him be the Glory forever & ever,King of kings,Lord of lords,,,,,Halleluyah!          Love,Kwik

[MorningGlory]

14 hours ago, LadyKay said:

You mean to tell me I just spent my time giving out my helpful advice and talking about how I don't like Chinese food to a fake post?

It may not be fake but it IS posted all over the internet; the exact post.  I'm thinking I don't know what to think but I do believe it's an attention seeking thing. 

[kwikphilly]

Blessings Brother Butero,,,

    That's exactly what I believe,,,,,,,,,

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King James Bible
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.                                                                                               Romans 8:28

And even if the posters intention is less than we hope,our HOPE is in Christ Jesus,,,,,,,

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King James Bible
But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive.                                                                                                  Genesis 50:20

 So,let us ask the OP,,,,,,,,,,,,,,"Gabrielle,what's your story?""In any event,we care & Jesus loves you....."         Love,Kwik

[tigger398]

If were me. I would have dumped them like a hot potato in one day lol. I have to many things to do and no time for it lol. I know it sounds harsh but you can count on it. You know when you start to do things on your own. You won't seem so needy.

[kwikphilly]

It doesn't sound harsh Tig,I have zero tolerance for nonsense & quarrelsome people,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I would'nt have even entertained such a conversation,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,      I hear ya                                         Love you<kwik