My mom took money from me without me knowing

[Figure of eighty]

At this point i feel i cant trust my mom. 

 

I agreed to help her bc she needed money for rent but she took more than what I agreed on. 

Its hard to save and move if 200 here and there is being taken from me. 

 

My mom owes me id say about 1200ish but i just want the 200 she took from me and the 200 i gave her from my stimulus. 

She complained to me about my dad who isnt working that he uses up and spends her money and then she does it to me. 

Idk what to do. My friend(who's out of my state) suggested a roomate but i dont trust online people. Not with my baby. I need to know them for a while. 

 

Then theres my ex.  I would buy i cant bc thatd be livinf in sin. Idk what to do.

[johnthebaptist]

3 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

At this point i feel i cant trust my mom. 

 

I agreed to help her bc she needed money for rent but she took more than what I agreed on. 

Its hard to save and move if 200 here and there is being taken from me. 

 

My mom owes me id say about 1200ish but i just want the 200 she took from me and the 200 i gave her from my stimulus. 

She complained to me about my dad who isnt working that he uses up and spends her money and then she does it to me. 

Idk what to do. My friend(who's out of my state) suggested a roomate but i dont trust online people. Not with my baby. I need to know them for a while. 

 

Then theres my ex.  I would buy i cant bc thatd be livinf in sin. Idk what to do.

I don't know how your mother could steal money from you unless you leave it sitting around so she can take it. Find a good hiding place. Keep as much as you can in the bank.

[missmuffet]

3 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

At this point i feel i cant trust my mom. 

 

I agreed to help her bc she needed money for rent but she took more than what I agreed on. 

Its hard to save and move if 200 here and there is being taken from me. 

 

My mom owes me id say about 1200ish but i just want the 200 she took from me and the 200 i gave her from my stimulus. 

She complained to me about my dad who isnt working that he uses up and spends her money and then she does it to me. 

Idk what to do. My friend(who's out of my state) suggested a roomate but i dont trust online people. Not with my baby. I need to know them for a while. 

 

Then theres my ex.  I would buy i cant bc thatd be livinf in sin. Idk what to do.

Don't leave any money laying around. 

 

[Figure of eighty]

47 minutes ago, johnthebaptist said:

I don't know how your mother could steal money from you unless you leave it sitting around so she can take it. Find a good hiding place. Keep as much as you can in the bank.

It wasnt laying around.

[BeauJangles]

My mom took money from me without me knowing

3 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

At this point i feel i cant trust my mom.

I've also experienced this, but it was at the insistence of my step-father who never could make a wise decision on his financial situation. He got married to my mom and was deceptive about being broke and owing money right into their beginning of marriage. 

Throughout their nearly 20 years together, he made one bad choice after another and had no common sense about ever managing money. Mom was so frustrated with him because she was thrifty and knew just how to keep from going broke over such foolishness. It was pitiful. 

Yes, they both stole money from me. They took advantage of my debit card, my car, and my generosity. I lost thousands over them taking from my account and wasting it on fun and pleasure for the two of them. Mostly for my step-father. Mom would never do this to me of her own accord. 

3 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

Idk what to do.

Take every effort to control your own affairs and do not give you mother access to your account. 

[LadyKay]

4 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

At this point i feel i cant trust my mom. 

 

I agreed to help her bc she needed money for rent but she took more than what I agreed on. 

Its hard to save and move if 200 here and there is being taken from me. 

 

My mom owes me id say about 1200ish but i just want the 200 she took from me and the 200 i gave her from my stimulus. 

She complained to me about my dad who isnt working that he uses up and spends her money and then she does it to me. 

Idk what to do. My friend(who's out of my state) suggested a roomate but i dont trust online people. Not with my baby. I need to know them for a while. 

 

Then theres my ex.  I would buy i cant bc thatd be livinf in sin. Idk what to do.

Well.. Unless you are willing to call the police and report your mother for stealing. The only thing you can do is what other people here are telling you. Keep any extra money in the bank. Do not! I repeat Do not give your mother you bank card or bank information. If your mother demands your bank card you tell her flat out No! Let her scream cry and throw a fit.  You can take out in cash what money you think she should get from you.  If you don't have a bank. Get a re loadable debt cards. Keep your money on that.    Well. That's just what I think you should do.  

Edited August 15, 2020 by LadyKay

[Wayne222]

Maybe your your Mon really needed it. Talk to her about being paid back. She surpose to. Unless she did things for you too. Maybe just forget it. 

[BeauJangles]

1 minute ago, Wayne222 said:

Maybe your your Mon really needed it. Talk to her about being paid back. She surpose to. Unless she did things for you too. Maybe just forget it. 

When I confronted my folks about the skimming of my debit card for foolish expenditures, they talked about reimbursing me. After lagging on the payments, I decided to forego the debt but took means to disable the debit card in their ownership and canceled it. That worked out well. 

[JohnD]

12 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

At this point i feel i cant trust my mom. 

 

I agreed to help her bc she needed money for rent but she took more than what I agreed on. 

Its hard to save and move if 200 here and there is being taken from me. 

 

My mom owes me id say about 1200ish but i just want the 200 she took from me and the 200 i gave her from my stimulus. 

She complained to me about my dad who isnt working that he uses up and spends her money and then she does it to me. 

Idk what to do. My friend(who's out of my state) suggested a roomate but i dont trust online people. Not with my baby. I need to know them for a while. 

 

Then theres my ex.  I would buy i cant bc thatd be livinf in sin. Idk what to do.

Is your ex the father of your baby? If so, that changes a lot of things about "living in sin"  or not.

Edited August 16, 2020 by JohnD

[Guest]

Hi my dear

Your mother stole from you. Tell her so and how much it hurts and is wrong, however desperate she is. Tell her if she asks you, you will help if you can but you cannot have her just stealing from you. 

Hide your own money. If possible open a bank account, tell your details to nobody. Look after your own money carefully. Your mother's actions are a wrong example - look to the Bible and in prayer to God and Jesus Christ for your guidance. Ask your mother to join you. Both of you let God be your strength. She is only human just like you. We are all full of faults. Only Jesus was perfect, let His life and teachings be your guide and comfort. No human can be what He is. Do not depend on any human to be your guide. 

I hope you and your baby can find a way to make a life. Set your baby the example of good Godly life that your mother is unable to do for you. Put your life in Jesus hands by praying to Him every day and He will help. 

God bless you.