enoob57 Posted December 10, 2022 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 35 Topic Count: 100 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 41,384 Content Per Day: 8.00 Reputation: 21,560 Days Won: 76 Joined: 03/13/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/27/1957 Share Posted December 10, 2022 4 hours ago, other one said: Do we really know that? absolutely as he punished himself in hanging... instead of allowing God to forgive him... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted December 11, 2022 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 599 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,254 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,984 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted December 11, 2022 5 hours ago, enoob57 said: absolutely as he punished himself in hanging... instead of allowing God to forgive him... Is it possible that God forgave him but he couldn't forgive himself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enoob57 Posted December 11, 2022 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 35 Topic Count: 100 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 41,384 Content Per Day: 8.00 Reputation: 21,560 Days Won: 76 Joined: 03/13/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/27/1957 Share Posted December 11, 2022 13 minutes ago, other one said: Is it possible that God forgave him but he couldn't forgive himself. either way he acted upon self-first and not God first... we know that which is redeemed is so inclined to place God first for that is the way, truth and life in Christ... Seen in Christ in the garden where all of His Being cried out for another way YET all of His desire was second to The Will of His Father... showing the priority of self to be God's Will... The bottom line to suicide is my life is mine and I will do with as I wish... the act itself states this... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enoob57 Posted December 11, 2022 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 35 Topic Count: 100 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 41,384 Content Per Day: 8.00 Reputation: 21,560 Days Won: 76 Joined: 03/13/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/27/1957 Share Posted December 11, 2022 20 minutes ago, other one said: Is it possible that God forgave him but he couldn't forgive himself. is it possible for God to forgive him... NO and still have God's Word be without flaw: John 17:12 (KJV) [12] While I was with them in the world, I kept them in thy name: those that thou gavest me I have kept, and none of them is lost, but the son of perdition; that the scripture might be fulfilled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnD Posted December 11, 2022 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 0 Topic Count: 909 Topics Per Day: 0.19 Content Count: 9,655 Content Per Day: 2.02 Reputation: 5,837 Days Won: 9 Joined: 04/07/2011 Status: Offline Share Posted December 11, 2022 14 hours ago, Mije said: On 7/24/2021 at 6:06 AM, JohnD said: Jesus taught that we must get our own house in order before we are to help others with their sins. I am to the point with my sun that I feel I am of no use to others for this very reason^ My point was to emphasize HELPING others, rather than judging others. But I appreciate your candor and I am praying for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mije Posted December 11, 2022 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 22 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 162 Content Per Day: 0.30 Reputation: 95 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/26/2022 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/28/1967 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Oh, I know- I was just saying it’s hard for me to feel I can ever get to the point of helping others. Feeling sorry for myself I guess😂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
com7fy8 Posted December 21, 2022 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 41 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 873 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 520 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/05/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted December 21, 2022 On 11/24/2020 at 1:02 AM, F_Ivan said: i heard porn addiction is caused by intimacy wounds, i was an intimate empathetic person as a kid but ive never felt intimate with anyone for several years (im 20), never had a girlfriend or a mutual crush, feel like ill be forever alone because im unnattractive multiple times, had a bad relationship with my parents for most of my teen years, How are you doing now? About things of our past > start new in Jesus. Trust God to have us living and loving the way His word says. On 11/24/2020 at 1:02 AM, F_Ivan said: only have a few friends im close with and my empathy is bad, it makes me feel like a sociopath sometimes because i genuinely find it hard to care about people most of the time. i feel like i have some severe emotional wounds regarding intimacy. So, you seem to be aware of what can be issues. So, this could mean you have a conscience that works. But we need how only God is able to change us into His way of loving and sharing. But yes, perhaps you should thank God that you know you need to have empathy for people. I suspect that there are a number of people who do not get feeling for others. And ones of them can be very sociable and charming. So, God bless you to be encouraged, and know that Jesus feels for > you < . . . "For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin." (Hebrews 4:15) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Filip Posted December 22, 2022 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 27 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 11 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/18/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted December 22, 2022 On 7/11/2021 at 8:56 PM, ProzacR said: I face similar issue. I will write down sort of public confession maybe it will help to me. Maybe it will help to others as I will show how that crazy mindset works. On some days when bored suddenly find myself out of control to harvest sexual content from internet despite never really liking that kind of my own behavior. Even as I woke up I feel that this really might happen what I do not like and still it happens later. In the most such cases I start with half innocent dating site thinking that I can not ban that to myself anymore, but it kinda awakens the beast to drift all around net from it. I have some quite unrealistic girl type which does not exist in dating site, but still I have to check for that again. And then I remember that it exists in other web sites without even thinking again how bad it is. So it is clear "gunpowder" recipe for disaster: well rested, quite bored and then some dating site to warm up and breach mental defenses really. I read pretty much all topic and hopefully I will face it with proper mindset next time. How is it going so far? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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