NathWChristian Posted March 3, 2019 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 21 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 58 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 13 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/03/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted March 3, 2019 Hi guys... To find the Right Person, aka a Husband, do I need to go to the Chruch or is it enough to just pray for God and He will bring me my husband? I prefer to pray at home. Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustPassingThru Posted March 3, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 8 Topic Count: 14 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,979 Content Per Day: 0.98 Reputation: 2,112 Days Won: 1 Joined: 10/23/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted March 3, 2019 Well, ...28 years ago I was living in Nevada and the Lord sent me to Tahiti where I met my wife, ...she had been praying for an American husband for 12 years. Yes you need to go to church because we are told in the Word to: Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching. Heb 10:25 As born again child of God you have a gift given to you by the Holy Spirit that a local body needs, ...in fellowshipping with them the Lord will use you to serve others and in so doing your focus will be on the needs of others and change from thinking about your own needs. Lord bless 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post other one Posted March 3, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 598 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,169 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,893 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Online Popular Post Share Posted March 3, 2019 1 hour ago, NathWChristian said: Hi guys... To find the Right Person, aka a Husband, do I need to go to the Chruch or is it enough to just pray for God and He will bring me my husband? I prefer to pray at home. Thanks. I don't think anyone should even attempt to answer that question.... first of all, to answer yes puts God in a box as to choosing for you...… but if we say no, you might get the wrong idea of church attendance not being important, which in fact it is important.... but that's a long story and may not be the same for every person. I would say that you shouldn't marry someone who is not a believer.... While it is possible for God to put him on your door step, but most likely you will pick someone that you have been interfacing with and discover that you like them. As for me, I met my wife at Dairy Queen.... was actually looking for a hot fudge Sunday, not a wife... but I did get the message that she was the one and I hadn't even met her yet... so go figure. Neither of us were going to church at the time though we were both believers. We have over many of our 49 years of marriage attended Church and enjoyed it very much and do now.... I would add though that Church is not just a place to pray, it's a place to worship, learn, make friends and enjoy company. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tzephanyahu Posted March 3, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 69 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1,625 Content Per Day: 0.79 Reputation: 2,033 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/10/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted March 3, 2019 2 hours ago, NathWChristian said: Hi guys... To find the Right Person, aka a Husband, do I need to go to the Chruch or is it enough to just pray for God and He will bring me my husband? I prefer to pray at home. Thanks. Shalom my friend, I didn't meet my wife at church but online and I can't think of many that did meet at church, to be honest. Your right person will come when you don't expect it though, just as many of God's acts happen. Otherwise, we might get it the way of things at mess it up at a crucial moment! That said, stay sociable at church, with friends-of-friends and even online, as much as you can do willingly. I'm sure Yahweh has plans for you, but utter isolation will surely make the process longer. Needless to say, Father's match for us is much better than we can imagine, so try not to have any expectations or criteria. But having to meet at church specifically? No. Don't burden yourself with such limitations. He is capable in many ways and methods. Do you remember how Abraham's servant found Rebekah? Do you remember how Jacob found Rachel? How about how Ruth and Boaz met? Keep your hope in Him. Love & Shalom 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spock Posted March 3, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 8 Topic Count: 29 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3,239 Content Per Day: 0.86 Reputation: 1,686 Days Won: 6 Joined: 12/26/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted March 3, 2019 We didn’t have online Christian dating websites when I met my wife. I also met her at church...married over 30 years. Going to a God centered, Word following church is a good thing. Prayer is also a good thing. in conclusion: do both.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted March 3, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,991 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,689 Content Per Day: 11.79 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted March 3, 2019 (edited) 6 hours ago, NathWChristian said: Hi guys... To find the Right Person, aka a Husband, do I need to go to the Chruch or is it enough to just pray for God and He will bring me my husband? I prefer to pray at home. Thanks. If you pray for God's plan for your life and if He has the person for you according to His will then God will bring that person to you. Not everyone can attend a Church. Although I do not recommend on-line dating. Edited March 3, 2019 by missmuffet 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blood Bought 1953 Posted March 3, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 13 Topic Count: 48 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 6,726 Content Per Day: 2.87 Reputation: 6,258 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/03/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted March 3, 2019 Praying worked for me......George Strait had a great take on this subject.... “ Out of the Clear, Blue Sky”..... it’s as good as anything else I have heard on the subject of finding love...... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayne Posted March 3, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 16 Topic Count: 107 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3,822 Content Per Day: 1.29 Reputation: 4,811 Days Won: 2 Joined: 03/31/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted March 3, 2019 You can pray effectively for a husband in your laundry room. You don't have to go to church to pray for a husband. However, do not abandon church attendance and working together with other Christians in exalting God and doing his work. Church is for believers to gather together for worship of Almighty God. It's a place for believers before or after the Bible classes and worship services to plan/carry out the work of the Lord in honor of the Lord of the work. Finding a husband for a woman or a wife for a man is not the responsibility of the church. It can happen there just like it can happen at the grocery store, the shopping mall, or anywhere on the planet. The ONLY thing I would do in terms of the church and finding a husband is to let my Christian married friends who attend my church know that I am looking for a husband. The Bible says to not forsake getting together with other Christians [live and in person]. The church has many functions and responsibilities. Match-making is not one of them. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your closest friendnt Posted March 4, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 18 Topic Count: 7 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 7,859 Content Per Day: 2.42 Reputation: 2,763 Days Won: 3 Joined: 06/05/2015 Status: Offline Share Posted March 4, 2019 Another way to meet someone is to take some classes. There you can meet other single people in an extremely safe environment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnthebaptist Posted March 4, 2019 Group: Non-Conformist Theology Followers: 6 Topic Count: 118 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 4,361 Content Per Day: 2.30 Reputation: 2,109 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/25/2019 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/03/1953 Share Posted March 4, 2019 11 hours ago, NathWChristian said: Hi guys... To find the Right Person, aka a Husband, do I need to go to the Chruch or is it enough to just pray for God and He will bring me my husband? I prefer to pray at home. Thanks. The Lord will do what he will do. If you want a husband, I'd suggest you go to church. You might be better off without one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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