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Me and a girl. Had lustful desires between us to satisfy each others desires we had sex. The girl is convincing me that even If our intentions were wrong she experienced love. But I definitely feel its lust.. guys should I marry her or even if i marry her will we be a happy couples

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2 hours ago, Jude felix said:

Me and a girl. Had lustful desires between us to satisfy each others desires we had sex. The girl is convincing me that even If our intentions were wrong she experienced love. But I definitely feel its lust.. guys should I marry her or even if i marry her will we be a happy couples

Hello ?and welcome,

this isn't a typical post in the welcome section, however I believe you need guidance my friend. First are you and the young lady christians? If you are, you need to repent for you both have sinned. This was wrong and I do believe that one your part you are right, it was a moment of pleasing the flesh while acting upon lust. The young girl is quite possibly confusing sex with love especially if you were her first, she gave you a most precious gift. Many people are listening to the lies of satan about self gratification through sex verses love. However even though she may have real feeling for you because of this sin, it is not grounds for making a life time decision and get married. If you and her are not christians, then you must begin there. Receive Christ as your savior. Again if you are christians, then you still must begin there. Go before him and confess your sin. Then you both must make the decision before God you will remain pure now. In order to consider marriage, you must be in love. Perhaps you need to date one another, keep God at the center of your dating. Build a friendship and grow together in your relationship with God. Enjoy falling in love, as with the new person you both can be in Christ.God will forgive you and he will also guild you in the proper steps. 

Welcome to worthy, may God bless you ?

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yeah no. Let god pick the woman he has for you-- I tried to make it work and do a live in situation and God defintely wasn't having it lol.

In his word it says stay away from the appearance of evil; don't put yourself in situations where you're bond to sin. 

Everything he says is for our benefit, i had to learn the hard way--sex before marriage creates soul ties (with the wrong person)thats hard to break making you willing to accept all kinds of abuse and trap you, it also opens you up to diseases and suprise pregnancies.. so please listen to God and his word and just follow him. 

Do it right and wait for the right person and you'll know when its the one.

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1 hour ago, Figure of eighty said:

yeah no. Let god pick the woman he has for you-- I tried to make it work and do a live in situation and God defintely wasn't having it lol.

In his word it says stay away from the appearance of evil; don't put yourself in situations where you're bond to sin. 

Everything he says is for our benefit, i had to learn the hard way--sex before marriage creates soul ties (with the wrong person)thats hard to break making you willing to accept all kinds of abuse and trap you, it also opens you up to diseases and suprise pregnancies.. so please listen to God and his word and just follow him. 

Do it right and wait for the right person and you'll know when its the one.

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I do acknowledge what your saying but I have this thought that we started with lust and our life and our memories will be only of lust.. that what I am afraid to marry her


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6 hours ago, Jude felix said:

Me and a girl. Had lustful desires between us to satisfy each others desires we had sex. The girl is convincing me that even If our intentions were wrong she experienced love. But I definitely feel its lust.. guys should I marry her or even if i marry her will we be a happy couples

Jude, I'd like to Welcome you to Worthy. 

2 hours ago, Jude felix said:

I do acknowledge what your saying but I have this thought that we started with lust and our life and our memories will be only of lust.. that what I am afraid to marry her

Then it sounds like a potential mistake if marital plans were made for the two of you. Marry out of love, not lust. I hope both of you are believers in Christ. If not, take some serious stock in it. God bless you. 

Shalom, 

David/BeauJangles

1698336089_candleflicker.gif.82d385029e1735bb51458839c4b3a77c.gifLet your light so shine ~ Matthew 5:16 KJV

 

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2 hours ago, Jude felix said:

I do acknowledge what your saying but I have this thought that we started with lust and our life and our memories will be only of lust.. that what I am afraid to marry her

 

Trust me......given enough time......that “ Lust” will subside and you will have nothing left.Find somebody you will enjoy talking to at the breakfast table......

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8 hours ago, Jude felix said:

Me and a girl. Had lustful desires between us to satisfy each others desires we had sex. The girl is convincing me that even If our intentions were wrong she experienced love. But I definitely feel its lust.. guys should I marry her or even if i marry her will we be a happy couples

The Bible does not support intimacy before marriage. If you do not love her then don't marry her. 

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12 hours ago, Jude felix said:

Me and a girl. Had lustful desires between us to satisfy each others desires we had sex. The girl is convincing me that even If our intentions were wrong she experienced love. But I definitely feel its lust.. guys should I marry her or even if i marry her will we be a happy couples

Jude,   I'm 72 years old and as of early July of next year we will have been married for 50 years.....    I can tell you that our long happy marriage had very very little to do with sex.  you can have sex with just about anyone.....   question is, what do you think about her for the other 23 hours and ten minutes a day...    that's what is going to make a good happy marriage.   

you should not have had sex before being married, but that's beside the point now....    but since we don't stone people for that any longer I guess you might have a choice.

So I ask, what do you want to do...   do you want to spend the rest of your life taking care of her.....    Jesus commanded that we love our wives as he loves the church.....   are you willing to let a group of guys beat you half to death and hang you on a tree to die if it is in her best interest....     that's the kind of commitment he commands from us....    and oddly enough not from her...        so think about it....       and if it scares you just know that even at 72 and not that many years left for me I would gladly have guys beat me up and kill me if it would keep her safe....   she does mean that much to me.     Of course they would have to take my AR 15 away from me first if we were at home and the .40 cal if we are out.....    but I'd still die for her in a heart beat.

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