I need some advice. I do not know how many of you have read 'If tomorrow comes' by Sidney Sheldon. If you have read it, you will be able to understand my issue easier.
One of my closest friends told me 'You are exactly like Tracy Whitney at the beginning of the book. When she goes to jail and the warden says someone has come to meet her, she immediately jumps to the conclusion that someone is going to save her. You too have dream like expectations like she does. Try to reduce it or you will get hurt'.
I know what the person said was right. I have dream like expectations when it comes to relationships. Can you tell me how to reduce it?
The general answers will be 'Pin your dream like expectations on God. And do not expect so much from people'. - With all due respect, I am working on it. But that cannot be the only solution. I need to change my mind habits and way of looking at things differently.
My lifestyle: Very ordinary. I do not party everyday,nor do I jump from boyfriend to boyfriend (I don't even have one now). I study hard and have only one or two really close friends with whom I go out once a week.
Please give me some advice on the problem I stated.
I will be grateful especially if the veterans (who have lived and seen it all) will advise me.
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